Era: The cannon fodder in the group pet article went crazy

Chapter 485 Effective Communication

After finally coaxing the child to sleep, Ruan Xiao returned to the room and saw his wife feeding the child. Seeing that fair and tender face, he stared at her with deep eyes.

"What are you looking at, you rascal? Turn around now."

"We are already husband and wife, why are you still so shy?"

"Humph, why do you care about me? Go and coax your son."

"Panpan, you know you are the most important in my heart."

"You can deceive people if you talk nonsense."

"Don't you know whether I'm lying or not? Naonao just can't bear to leave his brothers and sisters. This is normal. I've already comforted him. If he does this again in the future, leave it to me."

Wang Panpan was also angry. The child was undisciplined, and she was afraid of scaring Lele and the others, so she didn't know what to do for the time being.

She complained bitterly, saying, “No matter what he does, let him cry until he’s cried enough.

You have no idea how difficult it has been for me these days. This brat thought there was someone at home, so I didn't dare to hit him, so he acted naughty all day long. His younger brothers and sisters have been made to cry so many times. My warnings were of no use.

Now if he wants to go, let him go.”

After all, she was very annoyed. After all, there was a little girl for comparison. This was a naughty boy who made her want to beat him with a stick all day long.

Even if it was her biological child, she couldn't tolerate it, not to mention that now that she has a second child, she doesn't have that much energy to pay attention to Nao Nao.

Maybe when the kids are older, she'll go back to being her patient self.

But sorry, she couldn't regulate herself now.

"Okay, I'll listen to you. He is your son, so as a mother, you have the right to discipline him."

"That's a nice thing to say, just don't stand on his side and resist me."

"hey-hey."

"Humph."

Because the husband is tolerant enough, even if there are some problems in the child's education, the couple does not have too many conflicts.

Ruan Xiao thought that since his son got red, a few scoldings would be enough, but what should he do if the mother is more difficult to appease than his son?

He was in great difficulty.

I can only go to the kitchen to cook some delicious food and appease my wife.

It would be best if Wang Panpan’s anger dissipated quickly.

Aunt Liu felt like laughing after seeing what the young couple did, so when Ruan Xiao came in, she didn't say anything.

Ruan Xiao couldn't help but ask, "Aunt Liu, you said Panpan and Naonao are in conflict, whose side should I stand on?"

"Haha, you don't need anyone here, you just need to be tolerant of your wife, as for the quarrel, it's just a child's temper.

But it is normal for Panpan to be angry. Naonao has been too much these days. I don’t know where he has been. He has developed a bad temper. He breaks cups and scares his younger brothers and sisters. No matter how I tell him, he just won’t listen.

Maybe it’s because of these things that Panpan is so angry.

If you are bored, you can go and teach some.

Right or wrong is not that important sometimes, but attitude is very important.

You don’t know that Panpan always asks me how to teach her children. She is a good mother.”

Aunt Liu was not trying to dissuade them, but she just couldn't stand it. These scholars were really meticulous in raising children, which was why Wang Panpan was in the current situation where she couldn't have both.

"Okay, thank you Aunt Liu, I took everything you said to heart.

"You naughty boy, you are not as good as my daughter." Ruan Xiao finally knew what happened. He knew this feeling. He didn't want to hit his son or his wife, but wanted to teach them a lesson verbally, but because his brothers and sisters were there.

Naonao might have thought that with an outsider around, people would tolerate him, and relying on this vague intuition, he made Wang Panpan angry.

Thinking of this, Ruan Xiao suddenly felt that his son was quite smart.

But how can I think like that!

He shook his head, trying to get rid of this evil thought.

Ruan Xiao walked towards his wife's room with the roasted rabbit he had prepared.

Wang Panpan has passed the angry period and is reading a book. Recently, when she was teaching her children, she reviewed the knowledge again and felt that she was not so solid, so she read these books repeatedly.

Ruan Xiao didn't disturb her when he went in, she was immersed in the world of books.

He didn't look up until he smelled the fragrance.

"What are you doing? If you want to eat, go to the kitchen. You brought food into the room and made the room stink." Wang Panpan was extremely angry. She felt annoyed whenever she saw this man.

The younger one makes noise all day long, and the older one is also quiet.

"Panpan, you are already angry with your son, why are you also angry with me?"

"Humph, I'm not imitating your bad habits, so why did Naonao become like this?"

"You are wrongly accusing me, I don't have any bad habits.

Respect you, love the children, hand over the salary, and do the housework as usual.

Tell me what I haven't done well." Ruan Xiao was also upset. He felt that being slandered by his wife was a very sad and upsetting thing.

Wang Panpan spoke without thinking and took her anger out on others without paying attention to what she was saying. When she saw her husband's unhappy face, she remembered that this was the person who loved her the most.

A somewhat awkward explanation: "Just pretend you didn't hear it just now. I didn't mean it. You know I don't have any bad intentions.

I don't mean to blame you, it's just that I don't know how to teach children. Do you think I'm a failure?

Although I have been reflecting on this, I always feel that I should not put pressure on my child when it comes to the noisy things, and should let him grow up happily and freely.

However, I didn’t know that I would encounter so many difficulties in the process of growing up.

It turns out that children really need to be taught to be good. If I treat them gently, they will definitely not remember it. If I treat them too harshly, do you think Nao Nao will hate me as a mother?

so annoying! "

Because I didn't want my son to have a violent childhood, and because I wanted to give my child the best, but I ignored the child's nature.

Wang Panpan had a myriad of emotions in her heart, but she never thought of using force to make her son admit his mistake.

She caused the current situation because she didn't want to treat the child violently.

Ruan Xiao held her in his arms and gently stroked her long hair.

He was too superficial and thought they were just some minor problems. He didn't take them too seriously. If he had known earlier, he would have educated his son seriously.

"Panpan, this is not your fault, the child is our responsibility, so don't take all the blame on yourself.

In my eyes, you rarely get stuck in a rut.

Now, are you a little confused?"

"Ah."

"If that's the case, then you don't have to think too much about leaving this matter to me. Don't worry, I will definitely teach the child well. If I can't teach him well, then let him suffer.

One day in the future, the children will thank us.”

Ruan Xiao is a man who knows how to educate children, to endure hardships, to face setbacks and obstacles, to correct mistakes when they are aware of them... These things are not innate.

"Will he blame us?" Wang Panpan looked at her husband hesitantly. Her eyes were like a calm ocean, with a peaceful world inside.

Wang Panpan suddenly felt less sad.

Ruan Xiao explained seriously: "I went through the same thing when I was a kid. My father beat me countless times because I was naughty and got into trouble all the time.

Either he beat the kids or he played with them, but now they are growing up well, aren’t they?

I think the two of us are spoiling our children too much. This may spoil them badly.

There is an old saying: "A loving mother often spoils her child."

Panpan, think about it, should you let the child calm down on his own, or spoil him into a bad boy? "