Chapter 681: Abandoned Woman of the 8th Generation 8
Chapter 681: Abandoned Woman of the 8th Generation 8
The granddaughter's mother naturally knew about her daughter's attitude towards her mother-in-law, so she advised her daughter. After all, she is a mother-in-law herself. If her two daughters-in-law dare not take her seriously, can she still help take care of her grandchildren?
Both of Sun's mother's daughters-in-law are employed.
So naturally, the child could only be taken care of by Sun's mother. At this time, the five members of the Sun family were in the room of Sun's father and mother, and the two daughters-in-law and children did not mix in.
"Mom, please stop scolding me," Sun Jiaqi said irritably, "How could I know that my mother-in-law's temper would change so quickly? I always thought that my mother-in-law was a hard-working person, and she would never complain no matter how we treated her."
"My father-in-law has a mistress outside, but my mother-in-law has never said a word. She either has never suspected anything or doesn't dare to question my father-in-law. Anyway, no matter how you look at it, my mother-in-law is not the kind of person who will be bullied, or she is mentally ill and can't see that my father-in-law is cheating."
"Under such circumstances, how can I respect her? To put it bluntly, asking her to help take care of the child is because I, Sun Jiaqi, respect her."
"You're still talking, you're still talking," this is Sun's father's voice, "it's already this time, and you're still shouting here, no wonder your mother-in-law is disappointed and refuses to help you take care of the child. For someone like you, no one would be willing to take care of your child."
"Jiaqi, I have to say something to you too," said Big Brother Sun. "How can you be like this? Your mother-in-law has worked so hard to take care of your child, but you are not grateful and you look down on her. You have no respect for her at all. No one can stand this! No wonder your mother-in-law wants Cheng Jiadong to divorce you. With a daughter-in-law like you, any mother-in-law would want to kick you out of the house."
"That's right," Brother Sun also said, "If your two sisters-in-law were like you, your parents wouldn't even have to say anything. Your eldest brother and I would just kick them out of the house. Anyway, if you don't change your temper, you'll regret it someday."
"What are you talking about in the future? Didn't you see that her mother-in-law and Cheng Jiadong are eager to kick her out of the house?" Sun's mother said angrily, "Just tell me what you want to do now! Anyway, I think I understand. If you want your mother-in-law to take care of your child again, don't even think about it."
"You can either quit your job and stay home to take care of the child, or you can get a divorce and let the child start a family. After all, you are still young, and it won't be difficult for you to find someone else to marry."
Judging from the attitudes of Jiang Chunxi and her son, if their daughter continues to live with Cheng Jiadong, she will not have a good life and will probably have to suffer humiliation for the rest of her life.
Now is not the same as before. This woman cannot live without a divorce, so it is better to just get a divorce. Anyway, the daughter will not be able to enjoy the happiness of a wealthy family. In this case, there is nothing to be nostalgic about in a family. It is better to just get a divorce and find someone to marry.
"No, I can't get a divorce," Sun Jiaqi said excitedly, "I'm a teacher. If I get a divorce, how will my students' parents view me? Teachers value their reputation the most, and I can't let my reputation be tarnished."
"Besides, I can't bear to give up Xiaohao! I can't rest assured to give Xiaohao to Cheng Jiadong! Cheng Jiadong is an irresponsible guy. Besides, my mother-in-law is unwilling to take care of the child now. If I give the child to Cheng Jiadong, can Cheng Jiadong take good care of the child?"
"So what are you going to do now?" Sun's mother became more and more angry. "You can't expect me to take care of your child! I'm telling you, Sun Jiaqi, there's absolutely no way I can help you take care of your child. I can't even take care of your two brothers' children, so I can only help you take care of your child if I have time."
The two children of the eldest son are fine, they are already in kindergarten, but the two children of the second son are still young. Grandmother is almost exhausted to death taking care of two children. If she is asked to take care of another grandson, she might as well not work anymore.
"Jiaqi! Your mother really doesn't have the energy to take care of another child, so don't expect her to help you take care of Xiaohao," said Sun's father. "Or you can go back and apologize to your mother-in-law. Maybe she will soften her heart and let bygones be bygones and continue to help you take care of the child."
"This is what I think. Jiadong is your mother-in-law's biological son after all. There is no overnight hatred between mother and son. Even if your mother-in-law is disappointed with her son, it is impossible for her to really hope that her son and daughter-in-law will divorce and leave her grandson without a complete family."
"So you should go back and admit your mistake to your mother-in-law and give her a way out. Who knows, maybe she will forgive you."
"That's right, go back and kneel down in front of your mother-in-law, kowtow and admit your mistakes, I don't believe your mother-in-law won't go down the stairs," said Sun Erge, "Jiaqi! You are a mother too, you can't let your temper run wild. No matter how big your mother-in-law's problems are, it's not a reason for you as a daughter-in-law to disrespect her."
"Don't you think about it? You have a son yourself. If your son gets married in the future and she doesn't take you, her mother-in-law, seriously, what will you do? Will you just swallow your anger and endure it?"
"Put yourself in her shoes. You treat your mother-in-law badly, so why should she take care of your children without complaint? People are not born mean. You treat her badly, but she still serves you and pleases you."
"But..." Sun Jiaqi was obviously persuaded, "But my mother-in-law has changed her temper now. If I kowtow to her and admit my mistake, will she really forgive me?"
Things have come to this point, and Sun Jiaqi is able to bend and stretch. As long as her mother-in-law can continue to take care of her children and she kowtows to her mother-in-law and admits her mistake, she is not opposed to it.
But the problem is that given her mother-in-law’s drastically changed temperament, Sun Jiaqi doesn’t think her mother-in-law will be able to accept her admission of mistake.
"How do you know your mother-in-law won't forgive you if you don't try?" Mother Sun was almost mad at her daughter. "Okay, strike while the iron is hot. Go back now with the child, kneel down and kowtow to your mother-in-law to admit your mistake. Remember to kneel down with Xiaohao in your arms, and pinch him secretly to make him cry if necessary."
"This grandson has always been the apple of my grandmother's eye. I don't believe that if you hold the child and sincerely kneel down to admit your mistake to your mother-in-law, and if Xiaohao cries, your mother-in-law will not be soft-hearted."
It's okay to be pinched by a child. It's not that the grandson's mother doesn't love her grandson, but this is not the time to love her grandson, so she can only let him suffer a little.
Sun Jiaqi really wanted to say that her mother-in-law didn’t care about Xiaohao’s crying at all. Xiaohao cried until his voice became hoarse in the morning, but her mother-in-law didn’t seem to care or worry at all!
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