sbdcsierra Chapter 979 Tears Behind Bars 47
Chapter 979 Tears Behind Bars 47
"You've heard what Li Ming said, right? She delivers food during the day and drives a car at night. Isn't that hard for a woman?"
Yue Qi Yan couldn't understand it. He was clearly doing this for Meng Liu's good, and he really felt that it was not easy for a girl to live outside. How could he be wrong?
"Yes, it's hard for Li Ming's wife, but it's also hard for a man. Why do you pity her because she's a woman? Since she made this choice, it proves that this is the life she can accept at the moment. Do you think we women are fools? Why don't we run away when we are suffering and tired? And why do we wait foolishly? If she is willing to wait, it must be worth it for Li Ming."
"I....."
"Is there anyone in this world who doesn't suffer? The most fundamental reason is that in your eyes, men and women are not equal. You may be doing this for my own good, or you may really be afraid that I will suffer. But I want to tell you now that I am an adult with my own thoughts. If I feel it is suffering, I will not wait for you to get out of prison. You don't have to worry that I will regret my choice, and you don't have to forgive me for doing something that I think is touching. I don't need it."
Yue Qi Yan was a little confused, as all his research on love and women came from chatting with his cellmates.
Among men, everyone assumes that women need to rely on men. In everyone's eyes, men are the backbone of the family and need to make money to support their wives. Isn't there a saying that loving your lover is like growing flowers?
The greatest success for a man is that the woman in his family gets better and better after being with him.
Women's self-requirements and body management will be seen as a way to please men, so when people see a pig with a beautiful woman, their first reaction is that the man is really rich.
On the other hand, if a slightly plump girl is paired with a handsome guy, you will wonder what the guy likes about her? This two people will definitely not last long.
This is also the prejudice of most people.
"I am not a flower, I am a person, I can support myself."
Meng Liu's words were sharp. She hated being compared to an object that wanted to depend on men, whether it was a flower or something else.
Because she is not someone's appendage.
Yue Qi Yan seemed to understand what he heard, but he still didn't quite understand what Meng Liu meant.
In fact, it’s not his fault. Chinese people teach boys from a young age that they should be responsible and accountable, so after receiving this kind of education, he subconsciously thinks that loving someone means taking care of everything for her and nipping all risks in the bud.
He didn't have a virgin complex, nor was he certain that if Meng Liu didn't stay with him, the man she would find in the future would be this one.
He just didn't want to test human nature.
Compared to the one in ten thousand chance of meeting such a person, he could have helped Meng Liu avoid this risk from the beginning.
Meng Liu's anger was not without reason.
Yue Qi Yan felt disrespected because a fictitious person ignored her needs and even took it upon himself to arrange things for her after she was released from prison.
The two people think that the man is right and the woman is right. There is no right or wrong. It is just a clash of ideas.
"I understand. You feel that I arranged your affairs without asking you, so you are unhappy, right?" Yue Qi Yan asked in a low voice.
Meng Liu nodded: "It's fine if you want to understand it this way. Anyway, it's my business and I make my own decisions. You don't need to consider anything extra. If you want to be with me, you only need to think about our future. Don't worry about other things that have nothing to do with you."
Isn't it just worrying for nothing?
He even thought about what would happen after she was released from prison. Did she need him to think about it? Couldn't she plan for herself?
Everyone has a different personality. Some girls may like a dad-like boyfriend who arranges everything for them.
But Meng Liu is not.
After all, she is the god who controls the birth of all things. It would be strange if she could tolerate others controlling her life.
Yue Qi Yan had some idea of what Meng Liu wanted to express. Although he still couldn't understand it all, he had one advantage, which was being obedient.
And I will also think deeply about it.
Unlike many other men, she is not able to understand only superficial meanings.
If it were any other man, he would probably think that Meng Liu was just sexually frustrated.
But Yue Qi Yan wouldn't think so.
It's just that the thoughts of two people collided through the disclosure of their desires this time. If it weren't for this incident, there would be other things to quarrel about next time.
The sooner he discovered it, the sooner he could change himself and understand Meng Liu better.
He opened his arms, and Meng Liu stopped making trouble with him. She rushed over and the two hugged each other tightly.
"If I do something wrong in the future, you must tell me." He said softly and soothingly.
"Um...."
He bent his head and kissed her hair.
"I like you to tell me everything. I also like the way you argue aggressively. It makes you look majestic and cute." He continued with a smile.
Meng Liu punched him: "If I quarrel with you every day, you will be obedient."
"No, as long as I'm with you, no matter we quarrel or anything else, I'm happy."
"If we really quarrel every day, you won't think like this. Then I will be annoyed to death."
Yue Qiyan pulled her away, looked into Meng Liu's eyes and said affectionately: "I promise you, I will never bother you. And I can get to know you better through quarreling, which is the best way."
The relationship would always warm up slightly after a quarrel, especially for someone like Yue Qi Yan who loves sadomasochism.
Xiaomei reminded that Yue Qi Yan’s favorability had reached 82%.
She discovered that it was getting harder and harder to increase her favorability. At first, it was increasing by 10%, but now it only increased by 1 or 2% each time, like treating a beggar.
After making up, neither of them mentioned what happened in the bathroom. They just fell asleep in each other's arms and kissed.
The next day, Li Ming looked at them puzzledly while brushing his teeth.
Zhang Ming bumped his arm and said, "I just said that couples quarrel at the head of the bed and make up at the foot of the bed. You are worrying about nothing."
No, it happened too fast. Meng Liu was so angry yesterday that he was harder to press than a pig during Chinese New Year when lying in bed. But in just one night, the two of them were as close as a pair of pants.
It's not like he hasn't had arguments with his wife before. Every time, they would go into a cold war for several days. His wife would only give him a good look if he had to humble himself and smile.
"You don't understand this. Your wife is a woman. Have you ever heard that a woman's heart is as deep as the sea? Meng Liu is a man! How can a man be so shy and play the cold war all day long? Even though she is a little bit masculine, you should not treat her as a woman. We men just talk about things when we have something to say."
After washing up and running some exercises, the four of them went to the library as usual.
Wang Ming, whom I hadn’t seen for more than a week, sat in the sun with a smile on his face.
The four of them were stunned. They had never expected him to appear suddenly.
Zhang Ming was the first to react. He walked over and held his shoulders. "Fuck, why are you smiling so peacefully? You look a bit like my grandma. It's scary. Did you realize the true meaning of life after going to the hospital?"